@email@example.com I'll do as if I understood "coddle" correctly.
I really understand your point. I do not say they're right. I try to explain why they behave this way. (And why you won't get rid of them, they're legion…)
Thing is, "white" is not the main differenciating trait of people who hurts you, while they are for your non-white friends. You can easily differentiate from them.
«Man» is the main trait of harassed men's opressor. It's not "women", it's white fuck* cishet men. The very same as yours.
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